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Julianne Hough Reveals Abusive Childhood

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Dancer and actress Julianne Hough has revealed that she suffered from child abuse.

“I was abused, mentally, physically, everything,” she told Cosmopolitan magazine for their February issue.

Hough, 24, attended the prestigious Italia Conti Academy of Arts in London, and left Utah at the age of 10 to study dance.

While at the school she says that the adults around her took advantage of the fact that she was their without parental supervision.

“I was a tormented little kid who had to put on this sexy facade because that was my job and my life.  But my heart was the same, and I was this innocent little girl.  I wanted so much love,” she said.

Hough states that the abuse became worse when she hit puberty.

Also at the school with her were future Dancing with the Stars pros Mark Ballas and her brother Derek Hough, who were both also children at the time.

Hough, who’s currently dating Ryan Seacrest, declines though to say who abused her or provide other details.

Mother of Ariel Winter Claims She Found Daughter in Bed with 18-Year-Old Boyfriend

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Chris Workman, mother of Modern Family actress Ariel Winter, claims that her 14-year-old daughter requested for a new guardian after she caught her in bed with her 18-year-old boyfriend.

Workman told Celebuzz.com that she doesn’t approve of Winter’s sexual relationship with her boyfriend, who is a legal adult, and even reported the incident to authorities.

The Oct. 6 police report states that Workman found Winter in bed with her boyfriend, Cameron Palatas, around 10 p.m. on Sept. 24 inside her Montrose, Calif. home.  The report cites “possible unlawful sex with a minor.”

Winter and Palatas have been dating for around five months, and Workman has attempted to break them up because of the age difference.

Aside from this incident though, Winter’s has been in the guardianship of older sister Shanelle Gray since October, due to claims that Workman has slapped and mentally abused her daughter.

Workman claims that she never did such a thing, and the reason behind this is that Winter’s wants to be with her boyfriend.

Winter’s next guardianship hearing will be on Nov. 20.

Man, 29, Arrested for Strapping Kids to Hood of Car

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Aaron S. Stefanski, 29, of Fort Wayne, Indiana, has been arrested for “strapping four children to the hood of his car.”

Stefanski tied the kids aged 4, 5, 6, and 7 with a tow strap, and he left them there while he drove three blocks. He later claimed he believed the kids would “enjoy” the ride.

A U.S. marshal, who was driving nearby, spotted the car and notified the police. Authorities found Stefanski to have a blood alcohol content of .17 (more than twice the legal limit in Indiana) and charged him with driving while intoxicated and neglect of a dependent. Jessica A. Clark, Stefanski’s passenger at the time, has also been charged with neglect.

The Journal Gazette of Fort Wayne reported that the children did not sustain any injuries. FInally, the Fort Wayne Police Department, along with the Department of Child Services and the Allen County Prosecutor’s Office, is looking further into this case.

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Shocking Sex Abuse Scandal at L.A. School

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A new sex abuse scandal has been reported at Los Angeles Adventist Discoveryland, a child day care facility with religious affiliation. According to documents outlining the suit, a 17-year-old male student from the affiliated high school, previously prosecuted as a juvenile earlier this year, molested a 4-year-old girl after two teachers left him alone with many children in a classroom October 2011.

Lawyer Donald E. Karpe, who is representing the young female victim, disclosed to TMZ that the male pleaded guilty to one count of rape. He was sentenced to home probation, and the victim’s family has filed a suit for “unspecified damages.” The suspect allegedly touched the victim inappropriately on two occasions, one while she was sleeping, and another when he told her to close her eyes and remain quiet.

Three Children Die at Hands of Parents

Over the past few years there have been three cases of children dying while in the care of their parents.  All cases have taken place in different states—North Carolina, California, and Washington.  Sean Paddock suffered suffocation from being wrapped too tightly in his blankets, Lydia Schatz was spanked to death, and the most recent, Hana Williams, died of hypothermia after being left out naked in the cold.  All parents have been charged with some degree of murder.

The common factors in all these cases is that the children were all adopted, home-schooled, and disciplined with a plastic tube like the ones found in hardware stores.  All parents also used the book To Train Up a Child by evangelist Michael Pearl and wife Debi, first published in 1994.  The book’s basic philosophy is spare the rod and spoil the child.

Michael Pearl says the book has sold over 670,000 copies and been translated into several languages.  The book is quite popular with a few Christians who home-school their children.   Apparently the spanking method has become a prevalent use in child rearing these days.

What boils the blood of several parents who disapprove of this publication is the fact that it compares raising a child to training a dog.  Parents are outraged by this way of thinking, as they feel children are living, breathing, and thinking human beings and can’t be trained like an animal.

The Pearls use Bible scripture to support their stance in their book.  What they do not condone however is hitting a child out of anger.  Pearl calls the methods of child rearing in his book traditional methods that have been around for countless years but have gone out of practice.  Although spanking is a good thing, it should not be abused.  “If you can’t control your emotions it’s not for you,” Michael Pearl says of his method.

There are many who believe the Pearls’ book is barbaric, but the truth is what the parents of Lydia, Hana, and Sean did are not methods described in their book.  Regardless of what caused these parents to treat their children this way, they have been charged with murder.  Child abuse is child abuse and must be addressed.

Does Lack of Control Over a Child’s Weight Constitute as Abuse?

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Scientist have recently been talking about ways to create a better haven for morbidly obese children. Talks have been taking place on whether or not children should be taken out of their homes due to them being obese calling it Child Abuse. This new discovery is creating an indescribable amount of turbulence within the society.

There is a kind of fence wedged between the population. One side of the fence discusses why morbidly obese children should be taken out of their homes and put into a “better environment” same instances where physically abused children are taken out. One of the most important reason on why children who are morbidly obese should be “rescued” is for the simple fact lives are at stake. When a child has a poor diet and is “taught” by the family on what to eat thats all they will know and will act on it.

But there is a small percent of severely obese children who are going to die soon if there’s no state intervention. The goal of state action is not to fix obesity — it’s to prevent death in cases that are the worst of the worst, children who as best we can tell aren’t going to make it to adulthood.

But this is a small stick in the puddle due to removing the children due to nutritional neglect:

Removing children for nutritional neglect is fairly common, but the form of nutritional neglect is usually under-nutrition — children who are starving — not over-nutrition. Morbid obesity is just another form of malnutrition. It doesn’t require new legislation or a change in the criteria for state intervention.

Meanwhile, on the other side of the fence stands by educating families with obese children on how to improve the health of their small ones and ways to make it fun to get fit. Most individuals also believe there are a few problems with the state intervention technique by doing what is asked in the first point “we” are punishing the parents for their responsibilities. Many say there are genetic factors, environmental factors, and poverty issues that come into play with this issue.

What strikes me as odd about this proposal is that the proponents want to take the child out temporarily and return the child once they feel it’s safe. Well, the only way they are going to make it safe is to work with the family and teach good practices, and since they are going to have to do that anyway, why take the child out? We are not taking about an abuse situation where the child could be killed at any moment. Obesity is a long-term problem, so there’s no real urgency to take the kid out.

Which makes a lot of sense, how is one suppose to be taken out of the home just to be placed right back into the poor environment of which they left. Doesn’t make any sense to me.

To be honest I believe there is not a right answer to this issue. Families just need to learn what is good nutrition and what is bad nutrition, what is a healthy environment and what is not. When this is solved I believe this issue will not have to be discussed but families depending on social class will experience different problems due to social status.